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One-on-one conversations with women who have been there.

Coming to terms with a breast cancer diagnosis is hard enough. No one should have to figure out what to do next on their own.


Off Your Chest Downers Grove is a "pay it forward" group of women who have been through it, and want to help others who are going through it.


It's not a "support group". It's an opportunity to talk to someone one-on-one. Ask one-on-one questions. Get one-on-one answers.



How We Started

In March of 2021 I received a phone call that shocked me. At 40 I had a mammogram, which led to another mammogram, which led to a biopsy, which led to a diagnosis of early stage breast cancer. My doctor was kind, but brief on the phone, and I was told to call a breast surgeon who couldn't get me in for an appointment for 2 1/2 weeks.


2 1/2 weeks is way too long to have to wait to talk to someone. Lucky for me I could call my sister, a surgeon, who was able to spend several hours on the phone with me and explain what the medical terms on my diagnosis meant and what my likely treatment options would be. So when I went to that appointment 2 1/2 weeks later I felt so prepared, that I didn't feel overwhelmed with emotions. I was just ready to make decisions and take action.


Less than 3 weeks after my double mastectomy, I was out to dinner with some close friends, who had a close friend who had just received a similar diagnosis. I immediately offered to speak with her, and was happy to have the opportunity to share with her what I had learned from my experience. I had been so thankful to have that guidance from my sister, and I quickly realized that through my personal experience, I could provide help provide guidance and support for others. And maybe they would we willing to do the same for someone in the future.

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-Shay Dunne, Founder

How it Works

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Need to Talk?


Reach out to us. We will set up a time to talk on the phone, text, email or meet in person. Whatever makes you the most comfortable.

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Ongoing Support


Have a question? Need to vent? Sometimes you just need to talk to someone who has been where you've been, and we are here for you.

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Pay it Forward


Once you've been through it, your experience can help others. Join our team and donate a bit of time to connect with someone who could learn from you experience.

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Disclaimer: Off Your Chest Downers Grove is a group designed to provide support and encouragement to individuals. We are not medical professionals, and the information provided should not be considered as medical advice. Discussions are for informational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of a discussion with someone on our team. Reliance on any information provided by Off Your Chest Downers Grove is solely at your own risk.